for transgender or genderqueer people, however, this comfort is often lacking in their first sexual experiences. Thankfully, having sex after they begin their transition can be a completely. i had no interest in losing my virginity or doing anything sexual as a boy. The first to try unbuttoning my shorts and the first to be denied. The first time i was with a transgender woman was, well, completely by accident. I was still having a lovely sexual experience with this attractive person. So, clearly, the revelation didnt change the fact that i left sexually satisfied. One of my first experiences receiving oral sex post-op was a nightmare. I was confused as to why it wasnt the same as when i masturbated. We experience discrimination disproportionately to the rest of the community. And the real-life implications the operation can have on their sexual experience. Television personality, model, actress, wife, and trans woman carmen carrera is juggling many roles, and shes doing it in the spotlight. While on the red carpet at the avn awards back in january, i couldnt help but notice a cute, petite girl in a mirrored dress coming down the carpet after me. Waiting in line to be interviewed by showtime, i found out that that the tiny woman was madison montag, who was nominated as transsexual performer of the year. Most men on this planet will not experience the transgender dating experience due to a combination of social conditioning and internalized inhibitions they are missing out big time. The whole experience is further enhanced due to the novelty factor and the knowledge that most men will go to the grave without experiencing this. And a lot of trans people, myself included, felt that maybe it was wrong to have these feelings, to question whether you made the right. Flickr is almost certainly the best online photo management and sharing application in the world. Show off your favorite photos and videos to the world, securely and privately show content to your friends and family, or blog the photos and videos you take with a cameraphone.