The first time i was with a transgender woman was, well, completely by accident. At that point in my life i was in a larger city, and was enjoying the diversity of sex workers on the streets. the first to try unbuttoning my shorts and the first to be denied. But as excited and anxious as i was to release all that built-up sexual tension, i was. Israeli transgender activist linor bar-gil writes about her first love, in the 6th grade, which she also sees as her first transgender experience. The truth is that being a transgender in 2014 in israel is exactly the same as being a transgender in the 80s in israel. I was a part time manager and part time dj at a small club in florida. As a trans woman on dating apps, ive always made sure that guys are aware that i am transgender. There have also been many documented cases of trans women being hurt and sometimes even killed when they disclose their status to transphobic men that found them attractive, so being completely transparent is also a way of protecting myself from. I need the time to know you before i can let you in my bedroom. I cannot count how many dates ive been on where within the first 15.